Loving your body as it is

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With its multiple physical and psychological changes, adolescence is a period during which accepting and being satisfied with one’s appearance takes on major proportions. What do I look like? How do I see myself? How do I feel in my body? What do other people think about me? These concerns can quickly mount up, affecting the way a teen feels about their appearance.

Most teenagers want to feel attractive and look good. They are sensitive to the image they project and to comments from family and friends. In the era of social media, teenagers are continually bombarded with messages and images conveying an ideal standard of beauty.

Given this reality, it is not always easy to learn how to accept the skin we are in. Yet, it is crucially important, because a negative self-image can cause a teen to behave in ways that are harmful to their health. In fact, dissatisfaction with their appearance can prevent them from adopting healthy lifestyle habits, developing high self-esteem, and maintaining a good mental health. This can have repercussions on their overall health and academic success.

Body image and teens in the Montérégie region

More than half of teenagers are dissatisfied with their appearance, namely 57 % of girls and 54 % of boys.

Dissatisfied teens who would like to be bigger

Dissatisfied teens who would like to be smaller

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Check out our information sheets for more statistics, key facts, and solutions for families, schools, and communities.

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In short

  • During a stage marked by multiple physical and psychological changes, and at a time when the media is bombarding us with images of what the perfect body should look like, it is no surprise that most teens agonize over their appearance. Hence the importance of helping them to develop a positive body image.
  • Both girls and boys worry about how they look, which is why we need to act on behalf of ALL teenagers, regardless of their background.
  • As a parent, it is important to focus on the skills and talents that are more likely to help your teen adopt healthy lifestyle habits. Avoid discussing and giving advice about their weight.

Practical resources and tools

1. For support :

If you are concerned about a situation, do not hesitate to reach out to a support worker or a healthcare professional:

  • Info-Santé/Info-Social 811
  • Tel-Jeunes Parents
  • CLSC
  • Community organizations: family centre, youth centre, etc.
    Some community organizations offer support programs for parents of teenagers. Call your local organization for information.
  • School staff members

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