Well-being and mental health: how is my teen doing?

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Too often, people associate mental health with mental health disorders.

Did you know “mental health” is something we all have? And did you know we have the power to influence it?

During adolescence, teens experience a wide range of intense emotions, which sometimes make them seem unstable.

You can help them take care of their mental health.

To better understand

What does having positive mental health mean?

Having positive mental health means generally feeling good:

  • Feeling good enough to face life’s challenges.
  • Feeling good enough to thrive in different areas of life: family, school, work, friendships, hobbies and more.

Teens go through periods of stress, anger, despondency, or sadness.

Adolescence is a period that requires a lot of energy and adaptation from both teens and parents.

Their mental health can have ups and downs.


What things influence teens’ mental health?

Developing your social skills helps strengthen your mental health.

  • Being able to manage your emotions;
  • Acquiring self-knowledge;
  • Maintaining healthy lifestyle habits.

Social skills are what help them overcome difficulties while maintaining balance. This is called resilience.

To find out more visit the Social skills page.

A teen’s mental health is also influenced by the support they receive from those around them. While friends play an important role, the support they get from their parents is just as essential.

Finally, life experiences also have an impact on mental health. For example:

  • Feeling safe at school;
  • Having access to enjoyable leisure activities and new opportunities;
  • Engaging in activities that promote personal growth and self-discovery, such as volunteering or a job, etc.

Teen years come with a lot of upheaval and intense emotions. Don’t be alarmed if your teen experiences ups and downs.

if you notice changes in their behaviour that last for several weeks, there are resources to guide you.

Examples of worrying changes include:

  • Quitting activities they usually enjoy;
  • Isolating themselves;
  • Eating less than usual;
  • Sleeping a lot more or less than usual.

If your teen is talking about death and dying, take it seriously. Call your local suicide prevention centre (1-866-APPELLE) for guidance and support.

Be there for my teen

Encourage your teen to pursue interests outside of the home: spend time with friends, have hobbies, exercise.

Let your teen know it’s okay to ask for help if they’re having a hard time.

Listen to what your teen is going through, while respecting the fact they might not want to tell you everything. Do not minimize what they are going through. If your teen opens up, it means it is important to them.

Use indirect communication when dealing with more sensitive topics. For example, you can get the conversation started by bringing up a movie, a current event, or a character from a favourite show.

Recommand to your teen a book or a website about what they’re going trhough.

Encourage your teen’s efforts. Celebrate their wins and achievements. Tell them you believe in them.

Help your teen come up with solutions to problems on their own.

Accept that your teen will make mistakes. These are learning opportunities.

Make sure each family member has their own space.
Agree that each family member should be allowed to be themselves.

Pay attention to your own lifestyle habits. You are a role model for your teen. Try to act in the same way you’d like them to act.

If you want to have good mental health, you need to take care of it!

Practical resources and tools

1. For support

Are you dealing with a situation that worries you? Ask for help:

2. For more information

Websites and books for parents:

3. References

This info sheet has been written in collaboration with:

  • Élise Cadieux-Lynch, Social worker and partnership liaison officer, Aire ouverte Brossard, CISSS de la Montérégie-Centre
  • Émilie St-Onge, Planning, programming and research agent, Programme national de prévention des troubles anxieux Hors-Piste, CISSS de la Montérégie-Centre

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