To better understand
The end of high school marks the beginning of the transition to adulthood. The first decision your teen will have to make is about their post-secondary path. Will they go to CEGEP? Pursue a vocational diploma (DEP)? Enter the workforce directly? Choose another route? What path will they take? Who from their social network will stay close, and who will drift away? What does the future hold for them?
This is a pivotal period for your teen, as it involves many transitions, greater independence, and new roles: post-secondary studies (a new academic environment) or entering the workforce, changes in their social network (more stable friendships and romantic relationships), managing finances, and eventually leaving the family home. With adulthood also comes the responsibility of facing the consequences of one’s actions under society’s rules and laws. In short, major changes lie ahead, which can feel overwhelming! In fact, young people transitioning into adulthood are proportionally more likely to show signs of distress compared to other age groups.
In Quebec, as in the rest of Canada, it is observed that young people experience the events associated with entering adulthood later in life than previous generations. Nowadays, the twenties are often a period when young people experiment with the various options available to them. The personal skills your teen has developed, as well as their level of support, will be crucial in their ability to navigate these life transitions and will influence their trajectories, health, and well-being.
To better support
Thus, despite greater autonomy among young adults, parental involvement remains essential and a significant source of support. In fact, the majority of Quebec young adults aged 15 to 29 still live with their parents. This reality can be explained by the financial challenges young adults face (longer studies, rising cost of living, including housing costs) and professional challenges (job instability).
As a parent, you remain a role model. Do not underestimate your role.
In short
Remember first that by the end of adolescence, your teen begins to accept parental advice and values again. Through their experiences, they have developed their own identity and continue to shape it. Know that, as a parent, you always remain a role model.
Practical resources and tools
1. To support you:
Are you dealing with a situation that worries you? Ask for help:
2. For more information :
- Your young adult is questioning their school/career path? Carrefours Jeunesses Emplois (CJE) can help guide them.
- Your young adult needs to talk? Kidshelpphone.ca
- You’re concerned about your young adult? Don’t hesitate to consult : 1-866-APPELLE (French only)
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