Violence

Violence is much more than just physically assaulting someone. It is defined as “any intentional demonstration of verbal, written, physical, psychological or sexual force with the objective to distress, injure, hurt, or oppresses a person by attacking their psychological or physical integrity or well-being, or their rights or property” (source: MEES, 2019).

The prevalence and severity of violence among teenagers cannot be denied. Whether it is online or offline, violence in the form of rumours or exclusion (indirect aggression) is just as bad as punches and threats (direct aggression). The many consequences of violence, especially bullying, on physical and mental health, well-being, and academic success are well known. They affect everyone involved, whether directly or indirectly: the victim, the perpetrator, the witnesses, and even family and friends.

As parents, we all want our teenagers to have equal, happy and respectful relationships. The development of social and emotional management skills, respect for others, and safe, caring environments are important factors that contribute to reducing violence.

Violence of any kind must never be tolerated.

Active listening means listening to your teen, asking their opinion, giving them straightforward answers, and making sure you’ve understood them. For more information, see Mosaïk capsule no. 8, S’intéresser à son jeune, c’est l’écouter!

Even though the number of teenagers experiencing violence has decreased in recent years, it is still a reality for too many. When it comes to violence, it is everybody’s business. There is zero tolerance!