{"id":2204,"date":"2025-08-18T15:38:43","date_gmt":"2025-08-18T19:38:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/enmodeado.ekloweb.com\/?post_type=boite-a-outils&p=2204"},"modified":"2026-02-25T14:58:26","modified_gmt":"2026-02-25T19:58:26","slug":"the-parents-role","status":"publish","type":"boite-a-outils","link":"https:\/\/enmodeado.ca\/en\/boite-a-outils\/the-parents-role\/","title":{"rendered":"The parent’s role"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n
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Being a parent means first and foremost passing on your values. It also means supporting your teen in their daily life and choices, and standing by them in moments of joy, uncertainty, sadness, and anger. It\u2019s about guiding your teen as they gradually transition into adulthood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Being a parent also means doubting yourself and struggling to figure out how to interact with your teen. Even though the parent-teen relationship can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster, the parents\u2019 role remains crucial during adolescence! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, the key is to maintain as positive a relationship as possible with your teen, even during rocky patches.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n<\/div>\r\n\n<\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n\r\n<\/section>\r\n

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What’s the role of a teenager’s parent?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Little by little, you can feel your teens beginning to fly away from the family nest. Many teens become more secretive. Their friendships take on more importance. Your teen might challenge you, defy you, or even appear to push you away. As a parent, this may have you wondering if you still have a place in their life. The answer is: YES.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, being a parent of a teen means making adjustments. Supporting and guiding your child does not mean the same thing at age 3, age 12, or even age 17.<\/p>\n\n<\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n\r\n<\/section>\r\n

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As a parent, you are a role model for your teen.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You are not expected to be perfect. But, you need to be aware of your own attitudes, values, habits, and behaviours. What do you want to pass on to your teen? This is especially important as your teen is likely to confront you about many of your thoughts and opinions\u2026 it is best to be ready!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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During day-to-day life, maintaining a loving atmosphere and positive communication.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Talk to your teen, show them affection, and tell them you\u2019re proud of their efforts and achievements. Accept your teen without judgment, embracing their strengths and challenges. Offer them comfort and a listening ear while respecting their need for space. Offer your help and support, and make sure they know you\u2019re there for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To find out more, see Parent-teen communication<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

To find out more about how to support your teen, visit Even as a teen, your child needs your support!<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Guide and look after their teen.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Do you know what your teen is doing at all times? Who they\u2019re with? Where they are?  Remember that it\u2019s still crucially important to check in with your teen, if only by phone or text.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Set clear rules and fair, realistic consequences appropriate for your teen\u2019s stage of development. Talk about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To find out more, see How to guide your teen<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The important thing is to stay connected to your teen. Maintaining this bond means your teen will be more likely to turn to you for help. But that will only happen if they feel respected and accepted, <\/strong>no matter what they\u2019re going through.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n <\/div>\r\n\r\n<\/section>\r\n

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Practical resources and tools<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Are you dealing with a situation that worries you? Ask for help:<\/p>\n\n\n\n